Again, some very good points for us to discuss and ponder, Fr. Peter.
You cut to the heart of this in your comments about also being called to be Christians in the world outside of the physical Church building. The fullness of the vocation of a life called to prayer and service within the monastic tradition does, indeed, allow for the full cycle of the services at their most developed; there is also a comfort to the rest of us in knowing that this is happening.
But if one has worldly responsibilities, then they, too, have to be met. Personally, now I can drive again, I love the early morning journey through the Norfolk countryside when few others are about, and the services allow me the space I need to begin to focus on what is to come; so, if I had only myself to think of, everything would be perfect, and I'd be happy to stay as long as possible; but as I don't, I have to think of others and their needs.
It is interesting to hear about your plans at Chatham, and a useful reminder that as we get more established and begin to grow, new possibilities open up. It sounds as though your work is bearing fruit, and as it does across our patches, we clearly have the spirit to grow as we are called to grow.
In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. (1 John 4:10)