Welcome to this forum.
As one of Father Simon's flock, I can endorse all that has been said to you. I have only recently been baptised into Orthodoxy. At no time have I been required to justify my past, only to accept the Orthodox faith. We are all sinners, and one aspect of Orthodoxy is the constant acknowledgement of this and begging God's forgiveness. No-one can point a finger at another, indeed you will be supported with amazing love by all in the Church.
So, please don't worry about your past. For now, rest assured of our prayers for you both.
With love and prayers